Our Hometown Hero - Sgt. Jeremy Murray

Sgt. Jeremy Murray

Posted on Mon, Nov. 13, 2006

Medal of remembrance

Award to son in honor of dad Sergeant killed in 2005 during fighting in Iraq

By Marilyn Miller, Beacon Journal business writer

Marilyn Miller can be reached at 330-996-3098 or 800-777-7232 or mmiller@thebeaconjournal.com.

 

Six-year old Ian Murray clasped his mother's hand as she led him onto the stage to receive the Gold Medal of Remembrance -- designed for the children of fallen service members.

U.S. Marine Sgt. Jeremy E. Murray, Ian's father, was killed in a roadside bombing on Nov. 16, 2005, during his third tour in Iraq. Murray, 27, was a native of Atwater Township in Portage County.

About 200 people attended a ceremony Sunday to commemorate the anniversary of Murray's death.

It began with a graveside service at the Ohio Western Reserve National Cemetery in Rittman. Next was a remembrance at the Fellowship Hall at Wadsworth United Methodist Church.

Ian seemed relaxed though a little surprised by the huge television camera, flashing camera lights and loud applause when he was called on stage.  He beamed as he walked in front of his grandparents and aunt, stepped up on stage and accepted the gold medal dangling from a patriotic colored ribbon.

Ian touched the medal, then looked up at his mother, Megan Murray, and smiled. Sgt. John McLemore, a friend of the elder Murray who served with him in Iraq, placed the medal around Ian's neck.

Sgt. John McLemore, Ian and Megan Murray

``Your father died answering our nation's call. That makes him a hero.  You, too, are a hero for going on so bravely without him,'' McLemore said.  ``As you grow up and continue to grieve for your father at different ages and levels of understanding in your life, I hope you'll look back at this very special tribute with a warm feeling in your heart and take this medal in your hands and know how much our nation cares and appreciated the huge sacrifices your father made.''

McLemore said Murray lived in a way that he will be remembered.

``He was an uncompromising legend.  We live in a world today where people compromise for their own comfort and give in just to accommodate other people.  My friend Jeremy didn't do that,'' McLemore said.  ``When we were in Iraq, he was by far the most competent leader for our section.  He didn't hesitate to take the lead and he definitely went out there and put himself directly in the line of fire on every patrol.''

McLemore said Murray didn't compromise his beliefs or his thinking.

``He knew what he had to do and he got out there and did it,'' McLemore said.  ``That's what makes him a legend. He'll be remembered forever.''

The White House Commission on Remembrance, a government agency established by Congress in 2000, created the medal to recognize and honor children who have lost a parent in Afghanistan or Iraq.

Harold Murray, Sgt. Murray's father, said he wanted to acknowledge how much the family valued everyone's support and love during a difficult year. He paid tribute to all the veterans -- alive and fallen -- for their service.

``My son may be gone, not walking on this Earth, but as long as there is freedom in this country and as long as we're able to do the things that we do, then he's right here, along with every one of his brothers who have gone before him in the past who enabled us to have our freedom,'' he said.

Ian Murray, 6 and his mother Megan Murray look at the Gold Star Medal presented to Ian in honor of his father Marine Sgt. Jeremy Murray who was killed in Iraq last year. Members of motorcycle groups Rolling Thunder and Leathernecks Northern Ohio Chapter made up of military veterans, honored the Marine at Wadsworth United Methodist Church, on Sunday, Nov. 12, 2006 in Wadsworth, Ohio. (Paul Tople/Akron Beacon Journal)
Ian Murray, 6 and his mother Megan Murray look at the Gold Star Medal presented to Ian in honor of his father Marine Sgt. Jeremy Murray who was killed in Iraq last year.  Members of motorcycle groups Rolling Thunder and Leathernecks Northern Ohio Chapter made up of military veterans, honored the Marine at Wadsworth United Methodist Church, on Sunday, Nov. 12, 2006 in Wadsworth, Ohio.

(Paul Tople/Akron Beacon Journal)

 

 
Speech of Senator DeWine

FLOOR TRIBUTE
MARINE SERGEANT JEREMY E. MURRAY
Contact: Breann Gonzalez
Wednesday, December 6, 2006

Mr. President, I rise today to honor the Marine Sergeant Jeremy E. Murray, from Atwater, Ohio.  On November 16, 2005, Sergeant Murray was killed when a roadside bomb hit his military vehicle in Iraq.  He is survived by his wife Megan and his young son, Ian.  Twenty-eight year-old Sergeant Murray was also the devoted son of Harold and Pam Murray, and the brother of Lisa Murray.

Mr. President, Jeremy lived a life that was a model of commitment and bravery.  At the time of his death, Jeremy was serving his third tour of duty in Iraq.  But before leaving, this is what he told his father Harold:

“If I don’t come home, Dad, you know I died proudly.  I died for what I wanted to do.  This is my lifetime dream.”

Serving his Nation in the military was, indeed, the childhood dream of Sergeant Jeremy Murray -- something that had been ingrained in him at a young age through a love of the outdoors.  Born on February 5, 1978, Jeremy was only 2 years old when his father started taking him into the woods.  From there, he never once looked back.

Jeremy’s strong appreciation for and love of the outdoors translated into a childhood obsession with all things Daniel Boone -- who Jeremy believed was the greatest hunter of all time.  Indeed, Jeremy wanted to be Daniel Boone.

His parents made him a Daniel Boone hunting outfit, complete with a raccoon skin cap and a rabbit pelt vest.  A family friend contributed by making Jeremy a metal bowie knife.  And, his dad even made a replica flintlock for him.

Jeremy loved his Daniel Boone outfit.  But, when he outgrew it, he found another uniform waiting for him -- military fatigues.  And according to his father, Jeremy “never was out of those.  Never.”

Jeremy’s mother remembers that her son grew up talking constantly about joining the military.  He joined the Army after graduating from Waterloo High School in 1996.  After his enlistment ended, Jeremy came home and worked for awhile.  But, only a few months later, he joined the Marines.  It was simply the career Jeremy was meant to have.  According to his father, Jeremy “wasn’t happy with anything but the military.”

Jeremy’s mother agrees. “He really joined [the military] at birth,” she said.  Pam also remembers how ready her son was for the military. She tells the following story:

“[Jeremy] was so prepared for military service that when he entered boot camp, he broke down a rifle faster than his drill sergeant.  The drill sergeant didn’t like that!”

Jeremy made the military his career, Mr. President, and he gave it his all.  He was serving his third tour of duty in Iraq when he died.  Sergeant John McLemore was a friend of Jeremy’s who served with him in Iraq.  This is what John had to say about Jeremy’s service overseas:

“He was an uncompromising legend.  We live in a world today where people compromise for their own comfort and give in just to accommodate other people.  My friend Jeremy didn’t do that.  When we were in Iraq, he was by far the most competent leader for our section. He didn’t hesitate to take the lead, and he definitely went out there and put himself directly in the line of fire on every patrol.... He knew what he had to do, and he got out there and did it.  That’s what makes him a legend.  He’ll be remembered forever.”

Indeed, Mr. President, Jeremy served his country with heroic bravery.  His leadership has earned him more awards than I could name here, but they include the Purple Heart, a Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal with a Gold Star for heroic achievement.

But, Jeremy was much more than a dedicated Marine.  He was also a devoted husband, father, son, and brother, who loved his family deeply.  His 10-year-old niece Torey showed her love by writing Jeremy the following in a letter, “I know he’s a hero in my heart.  I will always miss you.”  And his sister, Lisa, wrote, “Jeremy was my hero all my life.  I looked up to him my whole life and miss him greatly everyday.”

Jeremy’s wife Megan was simply his soul mate.  And his mother remembers that Jeremy’s son Ian could always make him laugh.  Perhaps Jeremy’s love for his wife and son is best captured in a picture that was displayed at his funeral.  In it, he could not stop gazing at Ian, who was then a newborn, and his wife Megan -- not even to look at the camera.  You can just see the deep devotion he felt for them.

Mr. President, Jeremy’s funeral was held at his old high school on a Monday when it was already closed for the first day of hunting season -- fitting, considering Jeremy’s great love for the outdoors.  Along with her class, his niece Torey decorated the cafeteria and auditorium with colored flags and yellow ribbons.  On that day, Jeremy’s dad took time to watch the tree line of the woods he had once scouted with Jeremy.  He said: “I told my wife if any deer came up, I would pull up a chair beside him and watch it.  Jeremy would have liked that.”

Jeremy’s dad presided over his son’s funeral.  In his eulogy, he remembered both Jeremy’s strong faith and his love of the outdoors. He said:

“I know right now, as he’s standing at the right hand of God, he’s looking down on his grandfather and me because today is the first day of hunting season, and we’re not out.  He’s gonna give me heck for that next time I see him.”

Mr. President, Jeremy was a young husband and father with a bright future ahead of him.  He was a shining example of not only a Marine, but also of a human being. He will always be remembered.

My wife, Fran, and I continue to keep the family of Sergeant Jeremy Murray in our thoughts and prayers.

 

 

Name: Jeremy E. Murray, 27

Barkey

Died Nov. 16, 2005.

Service: Marine Corps, sergeant, 3rd Battalion, 1st Marine Regiment, 1st Marine Division, I Marine Expeditionary Force.

 

Hometown: Atwater Township, Portage County.

Biography: A graduate of Waterloo High School, Murray left a wife, Megan, and a son, Ian. He was serving his third tour of duty in Iraq when he was killed in a roadside bombing near Haditha, Iraq.

Quote: ``If I don't come home, Dad, you know I died proudly. I died for what I wanted to do. This is my lifetime dream.'' -- Jeremy Murray conversation with his father, Harold Murray.
 

 

`I died proudly'

Published Nov. 29, 2005
By Jim Carney and Julie Wallace
Beacon Journal staff writer

ATWATER TWP. - Standing along state Route 44, in front of Rootstown High School, as a gentle rain fell, Henry Peyton and his classmates waited for the cortege of Marine Sgt. Jeremy E. Murray to pass.

Peyton never knew Murray, but he was there with scores of other students to pay tribute to the first man from Portage County to die in the war in Iraq.

Murray's death, said the 16-year-old, was tragic.

``He gave his life for this country's safety,'' he said.

The funeral for Murray, 27, was held at his alma mater, Waterloo High School.

He was killed Nov. 16, 2005, on his third tour of duty in Iraq.

His wife, Megan, and 5-year-old son, Ian, were among more than 200 who gathered in the school's cafeteria and auditorium.

Before and during the funeral, Ian Murray clutched a white teddy bear dressed in a Marine uniform that a family friend had brought him.

His father's flag-draped casket rested in front of him at the base of the auditorium stage.

Harold Murray, the boy's grandfather, officiated at the funeral for his only son.

``He did not lose his life in vain,'' Harold Murray said.

``I want you to know that he gave his life to preserve freedom. Your freedom.''

He said his son had told him before leaving for his last tour in Iraq, ``If I don't come home, Dad, you know I died proudly. I died for what I wanted to do. This is my lifetime dream.''

During the ceremony, Sgt. Murray's widow was presented with a Purple Heart, a Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal and Gold Star for heroic achievement during his deployment.

Pastor Norma Bates of the Charlestown United Methodist Church, the Murrays' church, said it was truly a ``God thing'' that school at Waterloo was closed on the day of the funeral because of the opening of deer hunting season and because Sgt. Murray was an avid deer hunter.

``That was prearranged,'' she said.

Along U.S. 224 and on state Route 44, hundreds of people waited for the procession to pass and for the opportunity to show their respect.

Dale Kisner, 58, of Atwater Township, waited along Industry Road. His daughter, Army Sgt. Jennifer Kisner, had just arrived in Iraq and knew Sgt. Murray.

He said his daughter asked him to make sure he showed up along the funeral route.

``He is a hero,'' Kisner said of the Portage County Marine.

Diane Bader of Alliance and her two daughters, 12-year-old Sheena and 11-year-old Megan, also waited along Industry Road. The girls had brought along extra flags to pass out to others.

On state Route 44, firetrucks and firefighters from Palmyra, Randolph, Atwater, Brimfield, Rootstown and Edinburg townships and Ravenna joined civilians along the road to pay tribute.

After the trek along state Route 44, the procession followed Interstate 76 west toward the Ohio Western Reserve National Cemetery in Rittman.

A little after 1 p.m., the cortege made its way to the cemetery, where a contingent of stiff-backed Marines from the 3rd Battalion from Akron stood in formal uniforms, unflinching in the steady drizzle.

One by one, family members emerged from the stream of vehicles. The crowd filled the stone shelter where the Marines had placed the casket.

After prayers and brief remarks, the group of white-gloved Marines lifted the flag from the casket as members of the Marine honor guard outside raised their rifles and fired in unison.

The shots echoed across the rolling hills of the vast cemetery, jarring loose tears from many in the crowd.

Slowly and carefully, the Marines inside the shelter folded the flag and presented it to the widow. A second flag, tightly folded, was given to Murray's parents.

As with other recent active-duty deaths involving soldiers from Northeast Ohio, an honor guard from the Joint Veteran Council of Cuyahoga County was also in attendance.

One member, dressed in his Vietnam-era camouflage uniform, noted, ``There's been too many of these.''
 

 

 

Medal of Remembrance Ceremony
to commemorate the anniversary of Marine Sgt. Jeremy E. Murray's death
(Pictures courtesy of Kevin Ivey, Ohio Chapter 2 Photographer)
 
 

Sgt. John McLemore begins his tribute to his friend Sgt. Jeremy Murray
 

Ian and Megan Murray are called forward to receive the Medal of Remembrance.
 

Sgt. McLemore presents the Remembrance Medal to Ian Murray, son of Sgt. Jeremy Murray, while Ian's Mom, Megan Murray, and Aunt, Lisa Murray, looks on.
 

 

Ian Murray displays his Medal of Remembrance for all to see.
 

Proud Dad, Harold Murray, honors his fallen Son.
 

Ty Geiser, Vice President of Ohio Chapter 2, addresses those attending the Medal of Remembrance Ceremony.
 

"Duke" Dukeman, Ohio Chapter 2 member, speaks to the audience on behalf of all Marine veterans.
 

 
 

"Duke" Dukeman thanks the Murray family for their families ultimate sacrifice to us and our country.
 

 
 

Ohio Chapter 2's Chairman of the Board, Doug Wisor, gives his hearlt felt thanks to Sgt. Jeremy Murray and Sgt. Murray's family on behalf of Rolling Thunder®.
 

The Motorcycle Escort prepares to lead Ceremony participants to the Rittman Cemetery.
 

 

Ty Geiser and Doug Wisor check with local police officers to ensure a safe route to the Rittman Cemetery.
 

Honor Guard present and accounted for.
 

Rittman Cemetery.
 

 

Harold Murray, proud Father of Sgt. Jeremy Murray, plants a beautiful remembrance wreath at his Son's grave site.
 

 

Doug Wisor, Ohio Chapter 2 Chairman of the Board, Sgt. Major Noaker and Bob "Gorilla" Fankhauser, President of Ohio Chapter 2, participate in the grave side Remembrance Ceremony.
 

Sgt. Major Dave Noaker, member of Ohio Chapter 2, gathers the participants to begin the grave side remembrance ceremony.
 

The Remembrance Wreath is laid.
 

 
 
 

Two excellent trumpet masters were on hand to play Taps.
 

Taps played.  Job excellently done.
 

The Marine Corps salutes Sgt. Jeremy Murray with a 21 gun salute while American Flags wave all around.
 

 
 

Pam Murray, Sgt. Jeremy Murray's Mother, talks to well wishers after the ceremony.
 

Lisa Murray (center), sister of Sgt. Jeremy Murray, is comforted by a family friend as a news media cameraman catches all of the heart felt emotion.
 

  

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